Empower Yourself to transform your life

It is wonderful to see individuals having clarity of what they want to achieve in this lifetime.The potential that we all have within, is understood by few and most of us spend our lives trying to figure out what all we can achieve.

 

Right from the childhood we are raised under different set of circumstances and beliefs.The beliefs that shapes up our personalities sometimes limit us to explore new things in life.

 

To empower yourself means to give yourself the authority and capabilities to achieve your  goals. You can literally transform your life by changing the way you think and feel about yourself.

 

Self-Empowerment, helps you to become creative and ultimately more fulfilled with your life. Believe,  that whatever you  can see in your mind is definitely good to be true. Why do you limit  yourselves?

 

Moreover self-empowerment is all about - acting with your heart and seeing beyond what you are accustomed to.

 

Many of us are wandering aimlessly, determining our abilities and potential based on the views of  people around us. We do not realize that we are giving them the power to decide whether we would be able to fulfill our dreams or not.

 

Empowering yourself requires a conscious effort with full awareness in the moment,where you decide to take control and be yourself.

 

You empower yourself for the transformation in your life when you learn to love yourself - "You are an amazing individual with a unique personality".

 

Don't fear of being judged by anyone, be the way you are- always remember people who are judging you are dealing with their own set of complexes and problems .

 

Believe and keep faith in what you are doing, your passion would add life and success to your work.

 

Every minute in your day counts- so make sure to use it constructively progressing towards your goal.You would have to consciously decide not to give in to the negativity around.

 

Use all the criticism or negative remarks productively- listen to them and take a moment to analyze as how it can be used towards your growth and progress.

 

Self improvement is a process we go throughout our lives and we should  strive to adapt to better things, if  we want to feel the change within.

 

Empower yourself  "As it is you who  can create yourself and your destiny".

 

Stay Blessed

 

I found a very Interesting and Inspirational Video on YouTube that has been shared by Coach Bobbi, Self Empowerment & Life Transition Specialist. It is a truly inspirational video that gives a stepwise approach towards Self Empowerment. In case you wish to get in touch with Coach Bobby you can do so by visiting http://www.askcoachbobbi.com/

 

 

RE-KINDLE YOUR MOTIVATION

A life full of progress and excitement is an ultimate goal we all aspire for. Each day we work towards achieving new heights and fulfilling our dreams.

Its an amazing feeling when we accomplish our goals one after the other, slowly but surely. Analyzing carefully what are your goals and desires, then having a constructive plan to move forward, would definitely take you towards fulfilling your goals and desires.
 

Sometimes it so happens that you are putting in lot of effort and hard work into everything you do but something somewhere seems to be not right. You realize that you are not getting the desired results and the energy around seems to be full of anxiety and unrest.
 

I have concluded that whenever we are going through this phase in life, we should re-focus and re-visit ourselves. Going by the human psychology, we all get inspired and motivated at the start of implementing the plans. There is a feeling of excitement, success and opportunity. With passage of time, while you work towards your goals, there are moments, people and feedback that is not that encouraging. All these factors sometimes demotivate you and then you start doubting your own potential.
 

Keeping in mind, that all individuals are different and they perceive life according to their own circumstances, it is not imperative that they share the same thought process as of your's. When you experience lack of motivation, things not working out according to your wish....this are the time to gather up your self esteem, believe in your potential and re-inspire yourself.
 

Few points you can ponder on when you are re-analyzing the situation:
 

1.  Are you doubting your potential and abilities just because of the comments and the behavior of other individuals?
 

2. Is it that you are emotionally dependent on someone's approval to move forward and pursue your goal?
 

3. Do you want things to work out at the blink of an eye and that is leading to frustration and anxiety?
 

4. Are you too much into thinking on how people are reacting to your progress?
 

5. Are you scared to leave your comfort zone?
 

I am sure there must be many more questions that cross our minds when we sit and think about the reasons, but surely these few I have mentioned above are going to help you out to find the root cause of the situation you are facing.
 

Steps that you might want to consider changing the situation and moving towards a result oriented approach:
 

1. Every moment when you feel negative thoughts are coming across your mind, immediately change it into positive thoughts. Force yourself to see that brighter side (there always is).With conscious practice it would be much easier.
 

2. Believe in yourself that you possess the potential within to accomplish what you can dream of. The fact is that whatever you think and do has limitless possibilities. So do not stop the "Thinking and Dreaming" followed by an action oriented approach.
 

3. Assure yourself that your ideas can be crazy for someone else but if you believe in those, The Universe has given you enough power to change it into reality and live your dreams.
 

4. Positive affirmations are so powerful. With every conscious step you take, tell yourself something positive about yourself.
 

5. Reading good books and literature can really empower you. Take out time to read good books and autobiographies. You never know what can show you the way that you have been asking the universe for.
 

6. Before you hit the bed remind yourself of your goals and then when you wake up, embrace what a beautiful day you have been blessed with for you to take steps towards the fulfillment of your dreams...every moment in a day counts!!!
 

7. Meditation and Visualization guides you through in your achieving your goals. Understanding and analyzing the facts about a situation can help us to rectify it and come out of it productively. Don’t give in to the negative energies around so easily.
 

Keep re-inspiring yourself periodically so that you can keep yourself motivated and full of positive energy.
 

Your actions governed by your thinking and energy you possess would determine how easily you can fulfill your goals.
 

Re-invent yourself - as you are indeed a special individual with a purpose!!!
 

Inspire and motivate individuals whenever you can, accomplish your dreams and help others to realize their purpose as well.
 

Stay Blessed

 

Focus and Faith

Each one of us has been blessed with so much energy that we have the capability to achieve whatever we set our minds on.

A beautiful quote by a Blessed Soul:

"God never takes time to build a Nobody. Everybody Universe creates is to be Somebody".  So "Be Somebody".

 

Often we are so busy sorting out challenges and issues due to which we go through lots of stress and pain and eventually we forget the purpose of our being and find our lives full of discontentment and worries. In a nutshell, we are so busy worrying about the "Thorns" that we don't see the "Roses" that are so beautiful.

The Energy provided to us by the universe is so powerful that we need to spend time on ourselves to evaluate our strengths and to identify our individual ultimate destination in this beautiful journey. Every individual has been blessed with the  power and energy to shape up their life the way  that they want to.
 

In this journey to "Be Somebody", every moment you spend consciously and with full awareness, will ultimately provide you the much sought after Bliss.
 

When you start making a conscious choice of  every single minute of your day, you can feel the inner happiness, contentment and immense bliss.There is magic in your words, your looks, your walk...as a matter of fact you are full of charisma, that reflects in you.
 

Definitely there are times when we find things are not going the way we want, that is the time when we have to make sure we are not loosing our "Focus and Faith".
 

Focus is an asset that every individual needs to have, to accomplish their goals. Act as the "Lion" who is out to hunt and then Focuses on a  Single Deer in a herd. The "Focus" enables the lion to zero in on the Aim whereas other Deer in the herd dim out. Then comes the Faith......the Faith that whatever I have zeroed in on will be achieved.
 

Don't bother spending time cribbing about the little setbacks in this journey....Live Life as you have never lived before, Spread your infectious warmth everywhere you go. Never compromise on your self esteem or cater to the feelings of inferiority. The Universe has given each one of us the "Power" to carve a niche in this lifetime. Take a moment to acknowledge and put your hands on to that. Recognize your strengths and empower yourself . Start working on the identified weaknesses to accomplish your aim.

You are an amazing soul that The Universe has designed to "Be Somebody".

Continue your amazing Journey with Focus and Faith...............

Stay Blessed

ELIMINATING NEGATIVITY

The cycle of good, is broken by a single act of negativity. The cycle of negativity is stopped by choosing the good -- not just once, but again and again until it is goodness that prevails in your life and in our world altogether.

                                                                                    John Morton

 

Our emotions and actions are governed by our feelings . To progress and be happy we should surround ourselves with positivity. Most of the times practical implementation of Positive thoughts is not all that easy. A number of articles and books say that we should always surround ourselves with positive people and positive environment. When I applied this knowledge in my day to day life, I must admit that it does not seem practical. Then I came across a wonderful word "Awareness". Although I had read it a number of times I did not realize the potential strength of the meaning.

 

 "You have got only one life to live -  don't spill it"
                                                                                      Robert Schuller

 

Understanding the meaning of the word "awareness" is so important because when we live every moment with full awareness then only we realise how are we responding to the situations in our daily routine.

 

To live positively and eliminate the negativity out of our system we have to work our mind continuously. As soon as we find ourselves carried away  with the flow of the events, not realising that negative thoughts have already started to dominate at that very moment, we need to take a break -  "Time alone". Sit back, relax and change your thought process with full Awareness. A renowned author once used the phrase "Turn on the Dial" that means always keep on reminding yourself to switch your thoughts to positive ones, and that too with full Awareness.

 

"Today evil spirits are seen as negativity which floats around the Earth in large quantities"

                                                                                       Scott Cunningham

 

We can start practising this with meditation and periodically taking some time out for ourselves "Time Alone". Acknowledging  the fact, that we are going through negative emotions and feelings is the first step towards eliminating those thoughts. This is the First Step of Awareness. Next is to flush out these negative emotions and instead feed ourselves with positive affirmations and emotions. Each one of us goes through situations and problems at different stages of life, but the skills we master consciously and with full awareness, to counter these situations, help to live life in complete harmony.

When you are aware of the thoughts going in your mind, you can better take control of the situation and change the outcome. Taking control of your thoughts would not only help you to have a positive outlook but also let you see things with a wider perspective.

 

What we focus on, we empower and enlarge. "Good" multiplies when focused upon and "Negativity" multiplies when focused upon. The choice is ours: Which do we want more of?

 

Wishing you every moment of life, full of positivity and abundance.

RULES OF LIFE

         " Rules Of Life"

"Life is a grindstone. Whether it grinds us down or polishes us up depends on us".
                                                              Thomas L. Holdcroft

Have you ever wished that someone could have written down the "rules of life", for a beautiful life full of happiness and love?

Well sometimes we all wish for .....isn't it?? There are no special or generalized rules to life, as we all go through different circumstances and phases in our journey. It is our outlook towards different situations that changes with time, giving us a better  understanding of our priorities  in life.I believe that a simple approach towards life is the key towards happiness. Always maintain the good values that you have been brought up with and keep focus on what you want out of life. That is the foundation of your character and a stepping stone towards a blessed life.

"Life is 10 percent what you make it, and 90 percent how you take it".

                                                                                Irving Berlin

 

Every circumstance or situation you go through gives us a better understanding of "you" as an individual and makes you evolve as an better person.

It is said that "every cloud has a silver lining"....there are moments in our lives where everything seems to be perfect and there are some moments because of which we get our
"lifetime lessons". So everything we go through has a reason, its all in our mind how we are going to deal with that situation.

Always make a genuine effort to have a solution oriented approach towards life rather than problem oriented.As said by one author "if we look at a situation and focus on the solution to it, then make an action based strategy, half of the battle is already won".

On the other hand, if we continuously  focus on the problem then we are  doing nothing but putting all our energy to make it even more worse. It is all up to us how we see ourselves and how we want to enjoy every moment of being "Alive". Life is continuously providing us with new resources, new opportunities, it depends on us how to make the best out of it. 

Enjoy the bliss  and Celebrate each and every moment of being "Alive".

MIND CONDITIONING

"Fears are educated into us, and can, if we wish, be educated out."
Karl Augustus Menninger

It is amazing how we all are so occupied in our daily chores that we sometimes overlook the simple joys of life. There are times when the daily dose of inspiration comes from unexpected quarters. I am feeling so blessed as yesterday my kids were source of my motivation and inspiration. Both of them were trying to demonstrate an acrobatic activity and were very scared initially. It was amazing to see how they overcame fear and turned it into Motivation. Both of them would shout "Ahhhhhh" before the jump......the "Ahhhhhh" was supposed to get rid of the fear and then followed by the jump. It was a small jump, but with a Big lesson for me.

We unknowingly complicate things so much that we have totally forgotten the simple ways to enjoy our life, without stress. Before embarking on anything new and challenging there's a feeling of Fear that overpowers most of us that results in unfulfilled desires and dreams. Due to the feeling of fear of the unknown a lot of us refrain ourselves from embarking on new avenues that we have been yearning for a long time.

Take out the "ME TIME" for yourselves, then think about the feeling that held you back from doing something that you always wanted to do. Analyze the feeling and then consciously take steps to achieve what you have yearned for so long.

For my kids shouting out "Ahhhhh" helped them to overcome the inner fear and after what they achieved there was a expression of satisfaction and happiness. Its as simple as that.

Make a genuine effort to overcome your inner fears. These are the mental blocks that we have conditioned our minds through our years of growing up. We all need to take small steps towards breaking through these Inner Fears and notice the difference in our Self Being.

The key here is to be aware of your aim, risks and the inner fear. Conscious steps towards the Aim by overcoming fear will lead to success and eventual happiness and Bliss.

Everything we set our mind on, is achievable, we just need to be aware of the choices we are making. Feeling of "fear" is nothing but the limitations we have set for ourselves in our minds. Get motivated to overcome the fear and see what this beautiful Life has to offer you."

Stay Blessed

"SPREAD POSITIVITY"- MY EXPERIENCE

I am sure all of you would be going through the positive experience and making a change within yourselves. I have experienced quite a number of things during the day and have realised that controlling the thoughts is an art that we master through conscious awareness.

Well for me I have noticed that with conscious positive thought process there was happiness and contentment all around. We do come across negativity but, with our attitude we don't allow ourselves to sink in the worthless talks and decide  not to give importance those negative thoughts.

Yesterday, I experienced a similar situation wherein I really wanted to understand that even though we know that we have to be positive, then why do we let ourselves get sucked in negativity. I just want to share that when I was asking for an answer to this, I happened to speak to one of the blessed individuals (I must say) and she told me that with every negative thought we create disturbance in our body that leads to some or the other kind of ailments and when we allow our mind  to be ruled by negative thoughts ....we forget to "COUNT OUR BLESSING".

So I found my answer...I learnt that consciously spending each moment of our day with a positive attitude is very important to make our inner self happy and spread the positive charisma around.

Gratitude and Contentment  leads to Blissful life!!!!

Stay Blessed..

"RISE AND SHINE"

These are the words my son phrased this morning and I was really admiring the thought process going on in his mind. The best thing I have read in most of the books is the importance of Gratitude in our lives and I have incorporated this in my life. At night before going to sleep and in the morning before getting out of bed try to recollect all the possible reasons you are grateful for, no matter how big or small.The basic aim is to thank God and the Universe for all the blessings we have in this lifetime to make our journey more meaningful and feel contented.

Have a blessed day.