Showing posts with label Contentment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Contentment. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 16, 2014

YOUR SELF IMAGE DEFINES YOU


Thursday, September 27, 2012

RE-KINDLE YOUR MOTIVATION


A life full of progress and excitement is an ultimate goal we all aspire for. Each day we work towards achieving new heights and fulfilling our dreams.

Its an amazing feeling when we accomplish our goals one after the other, slowly but surely. Analyzing carefully what are your goals and desires, then having a constructive plan to move forward, would definitely take you towards fulfilling your goals and desires.
 
Sometimes it so happens that you are putting in lot of effort and hard work into everything you do but something somewhere seems to be not right. You realize that you are not getting the desired results and the energy around seems to be full of anxiety and unrest.
 
I have concluded that whenever we are going through this phase in life, we should re-focus and re-visit ourselves. Going by the human psychology, we all get inspired and motivated at the start of implementing the plans. There is a feeling of excitement, success and opportunity. With passage of time, while you work towards your goals, there are moments, people and feedback that is not that encouraging. All these factors sometimes demotivate you and then you start doubting your own potential.
 
Keeping in mind, that all individuals are different and they perceive life according to their own circumstances, it is not imperative that they share the same thought process as of your's. When you experience lack of motivation, things not working out according to your wish....this are the time to gather up your self esteem, believe in your potential and re-inspire yourself.
 
Few points you can ponder on when you are re-analyzing the situation:
 
1.  Are you doubting your potential and abilities just because of the comments and the behavior of other individuals?
 
2. Is it that you are emotionally dependent on someone's approval to move forward and pursue your goal?
 
3. Do you want things to work out at the blink of an eye and that is leading to frustration and anxiety?
 
4. Are you too much into thinking on how people are reacting to your progress?
 
5. Are you scared to leave your comfort zone?
 
I am sure there must be many more questions that cross our minds when we sit and think about the reasons, but surely these few I have mentioned above are going to help you out to find the root cause of the situation you are facing.
 
Steps that you might want to consider changing the situation and moving towards a result oriented approach:
 
1. Every moment when you feel negative thoughts are coming across your mind, immediately change it into positive thoughts. Force yourself to see that brighter side (there always is).With conscious practice it would be much easier.
 
2. Believe in yourself that you possess the potential within to accomplish what you can dream of. The fact is that whatever you think and do has limitless possibilities. So do not stop the "Thinking and Dreaming" followed by an action oriented approach.
 
3. Assure yourself that your ideas can be crazy for someone else but if you believe in those, The Universe has given you enough power to change it into reality and live your dreams.
 
4. Positive affirmations are so powerful. With every conscious step you take, tell yourself something positive about yourself.
 
5. Reading good books and literature can really empower you. Take out time to read good books and autobiographies. You never know what can show you the way that you have been asking the universe for.
 
6. Before you hit the bed remind yourself of your goals and then when you wake up, embrace what a beautiful day you have been blessed with for you to take steps towards the fulfillment of your dreams...every moment in a day counts!!!
 
7. Meditation and Visualization guides you through in your achieving your goals. Understanding and analyzing the facts about a situation can help us to rectify it and come out of it productively. Don’t give in to the negative energies around so easily.
 
Keep re-inspiring yourself periodically so that you can keep yourself motivated and full of positive energy.
 
Your actions governed by your thinking and energy you possess would determine how easily you can fulfill your goals.
 
Re-invent yourself - as you are indeed a special individual with a purpose!!!
 
Inspire and motivate individuals whenever you can, accomplish your dreams and help others to realize their purpose as well.
 
Stay Blessed

 

Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Increment to Your Potential

I came across a wonderful statement by a well known individual and then made a conscious effort to implement this in my daily routine.
 
The statement is:
 
"Grow yourself and your potential everyday, bit by bit"
 
If you decide to implement this in your lives, I can assure that after few days of consistent and conscious practice you can see the positive difference you have made in your lives. Amazingly, we can apply this rule  in each and every aspect of our lives. Each one of us has the potential to set our minds on whatever we yearn to achieve with full awareness and then progress every moment. In the process we overcome the limitations set by our own mind.
 
Belief and Visualization are the integral part of the self improvement process. Now comes the point wherein you have to start working for yourself, decide and act. Make sure you put in a little more effort to do a bit more than you think you can do. By doing so, you not only make positive progress towards your goals, but also overcome the limitations that are set in our mind. You would be amazed to see the progress you will make with this practice.
 
""Each one of us has the "power" we never dreamt of. Each one of us can do things we never thought we could do. There are no limitations in what we can do except the limitations of our own mind.""
                                                                               Darwin P. Kingsley

Positive affirmations are so powerful in this process of Self Improvement. Start the practice of "Growing yourselves and your potential" and implement this in all situations you may encounter in a day. It doesn't matter whether its in your personal,social or professional  life.
 
Limits to the "Potential within" each individual are set by his/her own thoughts but definitely the thought process is influenced by the brought up and the values that have been given throughout his/her life.
 
Living each and every moment of your life with full passion and enjoyment is the key to happiness. Whatever you are filled up with inside you, that is what you radiate and give out to others.
 
"There is no Challenge more challenging than the challenge to improve yourself"
                                                                                     Michael F Staley 

So dare to challenge yourself every morning to do a bit more positive  than what you did yesterday and feel the bliss.
 
Even while writing these beautiful words I am feeling so happy and contented. I pray for bliss and happiness for all and may you always wrap up your day with a feeling of achievement and a desire to  do  bit more the following day.

Enjoy the Bliss

Monday, July 16, 2012

RULES OF LIFE

         " Rules Of Life"


"Life is a grindstone. Whether it grinds us down or polishes us up depends on us".
                                                              Thomas L. Holdcroft


Have you ever wished that someone could have written down the "rules of life", for a beautiful life full of happiness and love?

Well sometimes we all wish for .....isn't it?? There are no special or generalized rules to life, as we all go through different circumstances and phases in our journey. It is our outlook towards different situations that changes with time, giving us a better  understanding of our priorities  in life.I believe that a simple approach towards life is the key towards happiness. Always maintain the good values that you have been brought up with and keep focus on what you want out of life. That is the foundation of your character and a stepping stone towards a blessed life.

"Life is 10 percent what you make it, and 90 percent how you take it".
                                                                                Irving Berlin
 
Every circumstance or situation you go through gives us a better understanding of "you" as an individual and makes you evolve as an better person.

It is said that "every cloud has a silver lining"....there are moments in our lives where everything seems to be perfect and there are some moments because of which we get our
"lifetime lessons". So everything we go through has a reason, its all in our mind how we are going to deal with that situation.

Always make a genuine effort to have a solution oriented approach towards life rather than problem oriented.As said by one author "if we look at a situation and focus on the solution to it, then make an action based strategy, half of the battle is already won".

On the other hand, if we continuously  focus on the problem then we are  doing nothing but putting all our energy to make it even more worse. It is all up to us how we see ourselves and how we want to enjoy every moment of being "Alive". Life is continuously providing us with new resources, new opportunities, it depends on us how to make the best out of it. 

Enjoy the bliss  and Celebrate each and every moment of being "Alive".

Wednesday, July 4, 2012

"SPREAD POSITIVITY"- MY EXPERIENCE

I am sure all of you would be going through the positive experience and making a change within yourselves. I have experienced quite a number of things during the day and have realised that controlling the thoughts is an art that we master through conscious awareness.

Well for me I have noticed that with conscious positive thought process there was happiness and contentment all around. We do come across negativity but, with our attitude we don't allow ourselves to sink in the worthless talks and decide  not to give importance those negative thoughts.

Yesterday, I experienced a similar situation wherein I really wanted to understand that even though we know that we have to be positive, then why do we let ourselves get sucked in negativity. I just want to share that when I was asking for an answer to this, I happened to speak to one of the blessed individuals (I must say) and she told me that with every negative thought we create disturbance in our body that leads to some or the other kind of ailments and when we allow our mind  to be ruled by negative thoughts ....we forget to "COUNT OUR BLESSING".

So I found my answer...I learnt that consciously spending each moment of our day with a positive attitude is very important to make our inner self happy and spread the positive charisma around.

Gratitude and Contentment  leads to Blissful life!!!!

Stay Blessed..

Sunday, July 1, 2012

"RISE AND SHINE"

These are the words my son phrased this morning and I was really admiring the thought process going on in his mind. The best thing I have read in most of the books is the importance of Gratitude in our lives and I have incorporated this in my life. At night before going to sleep and in the morning before getting out of bed try to recollect all the possible reasons you are grateful for, no matter how big or small.The basic aim is to thank God and the Universe for all the blessings we have in this lifetime to make our journey more meaningful and feel contented.

Have a blessed day.